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Are you like me at the present time? I seem to have attracted conflict and confrontation within even my most treasured relationships of late. I would consider myself to be a gentle, placid person and a keeper of the peace. So, I questioned out loud “Why is this happening to me?” and here is the response I channelled from my beloved Monk Spirit Guide:
Within what you term as conflict and confrontation there are valuable opportunities for growth of your spirit. Many of you seek to avoid confrontation as you fear upsetting other people and not being loved but this fear within you does not serve you. This fear prevents you from speaking your truth, so you end up stifling the voice inside of you which longs to be acknowledged, expressed and accepted. You in turn find yourself doing battle with yourself over what you feel others would deem as “right” and what you really feel inside. Your heart will urge you to speak your truth but your head tells you to ignore this and keep quiet in order to avoid any possible fall-out.
Know this, that every time you stifle your inner truth you stifle a great opportunity for the growth of your spirit. You stifle the freedom of honesty and you do, not only yourself, but also the other person a great disservice. This stifling, if done on a regular basis, will lead to resentment, which is the cause of much stress in many of your lives. This resentment, if left unexpressed, will manifest in the physical body as symptoms of illness and suffering. You have chosen the hard way to learn your lesson if you have chosen to avoid all conflict and confrontation.
Today is a new day, which means a new opportunity to start again and undo past habits which no longer serve your highest good. Make today the day for change. Let go of fear. Know that if you have Love and Light in your heart then you can trust your inner voice to speak with Love. Love endures and overcomes ALL. There is no argument or disagreement that cannot be healed by the power of Love. Conflict and confrontation is not something to be feared. All relationships have their sticking points, the times when you do not see eye-to-eye, when you have a genuine and valued differing of opinions. This is an opportunity for the people involved to communicate, from the heart, but with the voice. A chance to express your feelings with each other and both learn not only about the other person but more importantly about yourselves. You each have many of what some would call “shadow” aspects to your characters. These are the aspects you deny or would be horrified if someone described you as, i.e. jealous, selfish, disloyal, judgemental etc. But know this, you ALL have the capability to be ALL of these things. When you accept this truth then you will no longer judge others for their misgivings and then you will be able to face others with ease when you sense that something needs to be confronted in order to be healed.
How you handle conflict and confrontation is also another great lesson for your spirit. On the earth plane it can seem very hard, very painful and very emotional to deal with conflict. It is what some of you would class as your “Ego” that feels this pain and suffering. The spirit within you knows that you can cope with this perceived suffering and that even, given time, you can rise above this suffering to a new perspective, the perspective of your Higher Self, and see the great lesson being played out in the drama of your linear life. When viewed from the Higher perspective you are able to release the emotional burden and see it for what it really is; see the other person’s point of view without feeling the hurt and know that they are simply acting out their own drama too. For they too have their lessons to learn in this lifetime and how wonderful that the universe has brought the two of you together at this time to both express, learn and ultimately grow and evolve together. At this point of understanding it is important to act from the heart. Express your side of the argument honestly, taking responsibility for your own feelings, for no other is responsible for your feelings but you. Put hurt feelings aside and discuss the truth from your heart. The other person will respond differently to your change of tact within the conflict, even if at first they appear to persist with words of blame towards you. Your positive energy will have a lasting impact on them if you trust yourself, your true self, and remain strong and true. Put yourself in their shoes for a moment and then discuss with them how you see it from their viewpoint, putting your own feelings aside. The effect this may have will surprise you, as your heart will open with compassion and love for the other person and in turn theirs will do the same for you. You will begin to see “common ground”, a shared viewpoint, and this is when you will start to forgive yourself as well as each other. But even if you both still fail to agree, then with the Love and Light in your heart, agree to disagree! Know that this is alright and acceptable at this time and that you are both at the desired point, the precise point, where your souls intended you to be at this moment in your lives.
Within the arena of Life know that this arena can be filled with Love, if you so choose. It starts with the Love in your heart. From this arena filled with Love you cannot fail to see the perfect and beautiful opportunities for conflict and confrontation to expand your energy and evolve your spirit. Embrace these opportunities and know that you are never alone and that you are greatly Loved for ALL that you are.
My final words: know that once you have accepted conflict and confrontation as a healthy part of life and you therefore deal with them differently, they will begin to diminish from your future path for you will no longer need to repeat these lessons and it will then be time to move on.
Much Love to you.
Channelled on Wednesday 22nd June 2011
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